“That tough Marine will live forever.” “Something went terribly wrong,” the stranger said. “Katie’s been in the hospital since her operation last month. She wanted me to call you. She’s on a ventilator and can’t speak.” Katie was my father’s … [Read more...]
THE TALE OF THE SQUIRREL-PROOF BIRD FEEDER
Let me explain why I was so determined to outwit the squirrels stealing birdseed from the wild birds I'd attracted to my yard. Of course they didn't see it as stealing. It's their natural right to snarf up anything they can. And boy are they smart. … [Read more...]
Life Works in Mysterious Ways: How losing my last sibling gave me more than just a new perspective
I once wrote an essay for AOL about getting through Mother’s Day when Mom is no longer here (the essay is no longer here as well—so much for everything living forever online). Now I’m faced with Mother’s Day without my brother, Art. Every day without … [Read more...]
When A Video of Someone You Know Goes Viral (in a bad way)
It was bound to happen. Someone I knew and consider to be a nice person behaved badly, a bystander made a video, it went viral, this person lost their job and now must mentally wear the scarlet letters IPH (Internet Public Hanging). I don’t want to … [Read more...]
How to leave a book review on Amazon (anonymously or not)
When a tech-savvy friend confessed that she loved my book yet had no idea how to leave a review on Amazon, I decided to write this for her and anyone else who may not know. Books depend on word-of-mouth and mouse. It's part of my job description now … [Read more...]
What is the #1 way to increase happiness?
Life is not a bowl of cherries for anyone. We must take the bitter with the sweet, we're told. But some people seem to have an innate melancholy they can never shake. Studies now show that we stay at the same level of happiness our entire life. … [Read more...]
Zerk ’em: Another surprise in a pile of old family papers
In honor of Aviation History Month, Veteran's Day, and my father’s birthday, I’m sharing a peek at a treasure I unearthed when his widow died. I was asked by her executor if I would like his papers. What papers?, I thought. When he passed she became … [Read more...]
Chuck Berry, the author, takes out the trash and dishes it, too
I confess, I probably wouldn't have read Chuck Berry's autobiography had I not seen Bob Dylan reading it backstage. I immediately bought it and devoured it. Not long after, Berry played a club in New York City and I was asked to introduce him onstage … [Read more...]
Beating the Odds: Finding Love at Any Age
It was mid-January, 2014, still soon enough in the new year for the air to be charged with renewal and resolutions. My friend Rita had been in a long-term relationship with a wonderful man everyone adored. She adored him, too. But it had become more … [Read more...]
Behind NAKED DJ, the audiobook
I'm so thrilled Rachel Butera has been nominated for a SOVAS Voice Arts Awards for her narration of NAKED DJ, as have I for my narration of WHEN I MARRIED MY MOTHER. Known as "The Oscars of Voice Acting" it's indeed an honor. The awards … [Read more...]